Tuesday, May 27, 2014
LIFE ABUNDANT
"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly." John 10:10
Satan's job is to steal everything that he can from you, it is also to kill everything good and to destroy whatever he can, he does this and people blame God and Jesus. He wants to steal everything he can from you, your joy, your health, your money, your happiness, those you love, anything and everything he can. He wants to kill what he can't steal, you, your loved ones and destroy everything else!
But Jesus laid it out there very plain, he doesn't come to steal, kill or to destroy, Jesus comes to give life, abundant life, and Satan isn't able to steal that, he can't kill it or destroy it! We must put our total faith and trust in Jesus in order to have this abundance, He wants us to live, really live, live for Him.
When we do, look out!
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO
SHOES IN THE CHURCH
1. The LOAFERS
(they don’t do much)
2. The SNEAKERS
(they never want to be seen, they want to just slip in and out)
3. The FLIP-FLOPS!
(They are the ones who never know for sure where they stand; what ever sounds good at the moment is what they agree with)
4. You have the Wing Tips
(they give a tip instead of a tithe)
5. The Hush Puppies
(They never witness, never invite anyone to church, never talk about God, always afraid of offending someone or being laughed at.)
6. Sunday Shoe
(Just act like Christ on Sunday)
7. Sandal (Weak)
8. The Clod Hoppers
They hop from church to church)
9. Work Boots
Worker, (shod with the preparation of the Gospel of peace, always ready to get in there and help, they are not worried about being praised for their efforts, they just want to work for the Lord)
10. Army Boots
(For those fighting the Lord’s battles, they stand ready, sword in hand, on the front lines, following orders from God, always faithful, ready to fight Satan, never retreat, always advancing, to the very end.)
“WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO!”
Carey 1st Baptist Church was begun on September 24, 1905 by a group of people who wanted to have a Baptist church in Carey Texas, she has seen some lean years and some good years. Last year was the year of greatness and God gave us a great year, this year is the year of prayer and Satan is attacking us in everyway that he can. I want to ask, how many of the prayer groups are still meeting to pray? Satan is doing everything that he can to disrupt and destroy the unity that this church has had for so many years, and he is using people to do it, he doesn’t just show up and say, “Here I am, look out,” no he uses people. Sometimes we end up doing his job and we don’t even realize it. We must have unity in our body of believers. We must have love.
Proverbs 10:12
“Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.” (NIV)
We must have, show and use the fruits of the Spirit, did you know that the gifts of the Spirit can be often time imitated by Satan, they may be in a perverted manner, but often times it fools believers, but the fruits of the Spirit can never be duplicated or imitated by Satan. What are the fruits of the Spirit? The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Do you have love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control?
As I said, Satan is doing everything that he can to disrupt and destroy the unity that this church has had for so many years, this church has always worked together to advance the Kingdom of God.
Proverbs 29:22
“Angry people stir up a lot of discord; the intemperate stir up trouble.” (MSG)
In Thom Rainer’s book, “I Am A Church Member,” he writes, “God desires for Christians to get along. In fact He is emphatic about it. Jesus is clear when He said, ‘By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.’ (John 13:35) Did you get that? The world will know if we are Christians or not by the way we who are believers act toward one another.”
We must be showing and using the fruits of the Spirit. When we do we are willing to take ownership of this church and the responsibilities that go along with it.
But I will tell you up front that I am very concerned because it seems to me that we have way too may people who are willing to be spectators.
Spectators just watch what’s going on, they don’t get involved to help, they just watch. If Satan can convince us that someone else will do it and we don’t need to then he has won.
Have you ever heard of the 80/20 rule? The 80/20 rule is, 80% of the work in the church is being done by 20% of the members. This is a terrible rule to have in a church and it only exists because of the spectators.
But let me ask you, why do 20% of the people do 80% of the work? Because 80% are not willing to do what they have been called to do, and 20% know the joy of working for The Lord and are willing to do it. If we all did what we are supposed to be doing the 80/20 rule would just be a myth here at Carey FBC.
Several years before I came to Carey, there was a time when some of the members of this church began to leave and go to churches in town because they wanted their kids to be involved in activities that Carey didn’t have. Instead of helping, and getting those very things going in the church that they wanted and therefore helping the church to grow, they just left, they became part of the problem and not part of the solution.
Fast-forward to 2013, we have a great children’s ministry on Sunday morning and Wednesday nights, but now it seems that we don’t have people to teach on Wednesday nights. Some of our Sunday morning teachers have been also teaching on Wednesday nights and they are tired. We have people who teach on Wednesday and have been doing a great job, some of these are needing a break and we have places empty, places that must be filled or we will not have Kidzone this year.
One of the things that I have strived to do is have the very best ministries we can have here at Carey, but I can’t do it alone, I need help, lots of it. If we have to drop Kidzone because of a lack of help, that would be tragic. It would be a disservice to our kids, they would not be taught the truths about God’s word that they have been taught in the past. Do you realize how many children have been saved because of what they have learned in Kidzone and Sunday School, since 2009 I count 18, is it important? 18 souls saved from Hell, that is important! Now I know that not everyone is geared to teach kids, but I also know that there are some who could but don’t and have never tried.
Thom Rainer also says in his book, “I Am A Church Member,” he says that “all too often too many of our church members in the US have an unbiblical view of church membership. Their view is more aligned with the country club membership. For them membership is about receiving instead of giving, being served instead of serving, rights instead of responsibilities, entitlements instead of sacrifices. This wrongful view of membership sees the tithes and offerings as membership dues that entitle members to a never-ending list of privileges and expectations, instead of an unconditional cheerful gift to God.”
Every member is a necessary part of this church, we must all work together to make this work.
It is our job to teach, and minister, and worship, and pray, and spread the Gospel around the world. Did you know that we have a Mission Statement? How many of you have seen it? I think that its good to be reminded of our mission statement, to see it and know it.
We wrote our mission statement right after I came out here. You may ask, “What is a mission statement, and why have one?” Simply put, a mission statement tells people what we are about. Just so you know some of the history of this mission statement, in 2000, we began looking at doing a mission statement. We talked about what it should say about our church, so we wrote it and rewrote it and this is the final product that we came up with.
Let’s all read the mission statement together;
MISSION STATEMENT
Our Mission is to reach out to those around us, to help needy people, to encourage, love, and care for those in our church and community. To provide a comfortable atmosphere for worship and fellowship. To be a dependable and praying church, and to be an evangelistic training ground for those who serve Christ. To support ministry and mission efforts and to help spread the gospel of Jesus Christ around the world.
This is the statement that we decided would tell the world what we are about. Why are we looking at this today? Because we need to remember what God has called us for. Let’s look at our text.
Ephesians 4:10-16
“He who descended is the one who also ascended far above all the heavens, that he might fill all things. 11 And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, 12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, 13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, 14 so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes. 15 Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, 16 from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.” (ESV)
We should all be working together to help the body grow, when we stop working together we become like a motor that the timing chain is of a couple of notches, you might get it to start but it’s not going to do any good, its going to spit and sputter and knock and die and then try to run on after it dies. We, as a church need to be a finely tuned engine that’s purring like a kitten and ready to work.
Today we are going to begin looking at our mission statement.
“Our Mission”
This starts off with the word “our”, not my, not your, but our, which means that it involves all of us, everyone who is a member of this church, of this body of believers. Our Mission, it is about to state what we believe, what we are about as a church.
“Our Mission is to reach out to those around us,”
To “reach out” means that we go to them, we don’t wait, we seek out those around us.
We have an Outreach team called Connect that does this very thing in different ways, but this should never be the only way that we reach out, we should all be doing this as individuals. We have some people in our church who reach out in various ways and you would never know who they are unless they have reached out to help or to bless you because they don’t go around tooting their own horn. Some of these people have blessed my wife and I with food and with other things, one time when I couldn’t mow my own yard one of them came over and mowed my yard for me. But they don’t just reach out to those in our church, they reach out to others as well. We need to all be like this, reaching out to others.
“To help needy people,”
Acts 10:4
“Cornelius stared at him in fear."What is it, Lord?" he asked.
The angel answered, "Your prayers and gifts to the poor have come up as a memorial offering before God.” (NIV)
Who are the needy people? What does it take to qualify as needy? You say, “Well those in need.” In need of what? Clothes? Food? Shelter? Jesus?
I have met and I continue to meet all kinds of people in need. To those in need of a place to sleep, we put them up for the night, to those in need of food we feed them, to those in need of clothes, we step up. We have a Benevolence Committee and a Blessings Committee to help meet these needs.
But I find more people in need of Jesus, or in need of someone to talk to, or in need of someone who cares about them or loves them. There are many kinds of needs. Sometimes people just need to be treated different by us than they are by everyone else. We are to reach out to those in need. But Jesus gave us a warning about giving to the needy;
Matthew 6:1-4
“Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. 2 "Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 3 But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” (ESV)
“to encourage, love, and care for those in our church and community.”
(to encourage)
1 Thessalonians 5:11
“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” (ESV)
1 Thessalonians 5:14
“And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all.” (ESV)
(to love)
1 John 4:7-8
“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. 8 Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.” (ESV)
(to care for those in our church and community)
1 John 4:16
“So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” (ESV)
Closing
John 3:16-21
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. 19 And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. 21 But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his deeds have been carried out in God.” (ESV)
We have talked a lot about service and working for the Lord this morning, but these verses point out the fact that without Jesus it just doesn’t make any sense. When you see these verses do you see yourself in the light or the darkness?
1 John 1:5-9
“This is the message we have heard from him and proclaim to you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. 6 If we say we have fellowship with him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin. 8 If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (ESV)
The only way that we can get to the light and to God is through Jesus. Have you accepted Him
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
HOW MUCH I COULD HAVE DONE
2 Corinthians 8:5 (NLT)
Before the judgment seat of Christ my service will be judged not by how much I have done but by how much I could have done. In God's sight my giving is measured not by how much I have given but by how much I could have given and how much I had left after my gift. The needs of the world and my total ability to minister to those needs decide the worth of my service.
Not by its size is my gift judged, but by how much of me there is in it. No man gives all until he has given all. No man gives anything acceptable to God until he has first given himself in love and sacrifice....
In the work of the church the amount one man must do to accomplish a given task is determined by how much or how little the rest of the company is willing to do. It is a rare church whose members all put their shoulder to the wheel. The typical church is composed of the few whose shoulders are bruised by their faithful labors and the many who are unwilling to raise a blister in the service of God and their fellowmen. There may be a bit of wry humor in all this, but it is quite certain that there will be no laughter when each of us gives account to God of the deeds done in the body.
A.W. Tozer That Incredible Christian
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
EXCUSES
But when you really get serious about your walk with God, when He becomes the most important person in your life, you no longer make excuses, you just produce fruit.
Randy Wilson
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND?
Thanks and I hope to here from you soon.
MISSIONS
Lord, I pray for those in our church, I pray Lord that you will make us all mission-minded. Let us become aware to the needs that are around us everyday, show us how we can be involved in missions, those that our church are involved in and those that our Southern Baptist missionaries are involved in. Amen.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
MISSING SHEEP
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
LAUGH OUT LOUD
From the Yeovil, England, Western Gazette: "The first swallow has arrived at Devizes. It was spotted by Police Constable John Cooke, of Seend, whose hobby is bird watching, sitting wet and bedraggled on telephone wires." (How does that constable do that while he’s all wet, I tried it and fell off three times?)
Classified ad: Man wanted to work in dynamite factory; must be willing to travel. (How far up?)
From the Tulsa, Oklahoma, World: "It is permissible to spank a child if one has a definite end in view." (Always keep your eyes open!)
The Harrah, Oklahoma, News ran an article about the Folderol String Band, which was to entertain at a barbecue. The story explained, "These true sons of the Southwest have twanged their music all over Oklahoma and have been asked more than once to leave the state." (And don’t come back!!)
Society note in the Denver, Colorado, Rocky Mountain News: "She looked like the belle of a court ball with the gown and her hair piled high on her head." (Someone should tell her that the dress goes lower)
Sign spotted in Jacksonville, Florida: Pool is open 24 hours. Please do not enter the pool at any other time. (Like during the 25th hour?)
In a letter from a summer camp director: Dear parents: We are pleased to announce the opening of registration. We are working hard and looking forward to the ultimate bummer experience for everyone. (I think I’ve been to that camp)
A classic of its kind was this sign in an army mess hall in Britain. Printed in big black letters across the exit, it read: Kindly Let Those Who Are Going Out First.
That sentence drove us crazy, and I thought it would never be topped. But it was, in a San Francisco bar. I overheard a guy who was being pestered to death by a frightful bore snap, "If you don't get out of here and leave me alone, I'll find somebody who can!" (So there, if that didn't make you laugh I’ll find someone else who did.)
Did you have a good laugh? These are all things that I found, and no I was not in a bar, really!
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
SPECTATORS OR PARTICIPATORS
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
ONE DAY
Dr. J. Vernon McGee says, “He says, "A day in Thy courts is better than a thousand days anywhere else. I had rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God, than to dwell in the tents of wickedness,'' and that's what the sons of Korah were -- doorkeepers. He says, "I would rather have my job than to be a rich man living far from God.'' There are some folk who look at their watches on Sunday morning to see if the preacher is going overtime. The psalmist says, "I'd rather spend one day in God's house than a thousand anywhere else.'' What a glorious psalm this is, and what a rebuke it is to many of us.”
How often do we come to church and then think about being somewhere else? Or, how often do we just go somewhere else instead of coming to church, but the psalmist is saying that one day in God’s house is better than a thousand days anywhere else, wow, what a way to look at being in God’s house. Oh that we would have that same attitude, just one day in your house in your presence is better than a thousand days at the lake, or race track, or park or game or anywhere else you can think of. When we learn to worship God that way it will enhance every area of our life. When we choose to really put God first, when we choose to serve God with our whole heart not holding anything back, the when the enemy attacks, when the enemy does us harm, God can turn it around and use it for good. What Satan meant for harm God means for good means that God is still on His throne and no one can remove Him. God may not do it the way that we want it done, but then, He is God and we aren’t. We may not understand it all, but we must trust Him and have faith. When we can come to this point in our life, then we will truly understand why one day in His house is better than a thousand anywhere else.
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
FATHER'S DAY
I want to ask you something, have you taken time to honor your dad today? If you are able to, in some way, honor him today, I’m not going to tell you how to do that, but please make an effort to do it. In this day and age when all too many men think that all you have to do to be a dad is to have a kid, (even goats do that) take time to honor those who are truly fathers. A little appreciation goes a long way, it doesn’t take an expensive gift, just love. Men are simple creatures, (not simple minded), just simple and easy to please. Real fathers just want family close, to cook out or to be with friends...and look we have all three here today. So, Happy Father’s Day. Remember, God honors dads and here at Carey, so do we!
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
God & Country
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
KINGDOM & MONEY
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Master Mechanic
P.S. The mower had to go to the hospital (shop), do you need to be in the hospital (church)? We all need to visit with the Master Mechanic, do we as often as we need to?
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
PASTOR'S PEN 4-25-10
Did you know that next week is Senior Adult Sunday? Well it is, and our senior adults will be involved in our service and it will be a very special service. But I have a favor to ask of you, we will be honoring our senior adults next week with a potluck dinner after church. Now I don’t know if you know it or not but they bring a lot of food when we have fellowship meals, so for next week can we who are not senior adults bring lots of food so they don’t have to? They may wish to bring a dish but they should not have to bring as much as they do most of the time. So can you help me honor our senior adults next week? Let’s all show up in force and stay and eat lunch, our senior adults are worth it, they are the ones who have kept things going for many years and we can take time to honor them. So one more time...be here next week, bring lots of food, stay and eat, honor our senior adults, and, and tell them how much you love and appreciate them. Next Sunday, Senior Adult Sunday!! Be here!!
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
PASTOR'S PEN 4-11-10
Well what did you think about last Sunday? We started off with the Sunrise Service and then we baptized two, had a great service, and ended it with communion and an Easter Egg Hunt. After church Amy, Zach, Zoe, Becky and I went to Amarillo to spend some time with Jody, Sarah and the girls. We watched the girls hunt eggs together and then went to church with them as they were having Resurrection Week. We had a great time with them and at church, and got home way, way, way late, but it was worth it.
Have you received your census yet? I don’t mean to sound political, but does this seem like a big waste of money to you? First we receive a letter telling us that the census will be mailed soon, this cost money for postage, paper and envelopes, plus someone to write the letters, copy them and send them. And then we get the census in the mail, and then we get a second census in the mail and I’m told that we will be getting a third. Does this sound like overkill? Now I’m finding out that census workers are being told to slow down, stall, waste time and stretch out their work unnecessarily, they are being told that in order to make unemployment look better they need to be slower. They are being sent to soup kitchens, parks and shelters to count people, not talk to them, just observe their race, sex and approximate age, 2 or 3 times. It just seems to me like a lot of wasted money at a time when our government is out of money, but what do I know? The census is also being used in ways that it wasn’t meant for but the information that it asks for is just about the same as was asked for in the Madison administration, how it’s used though is another matter. But, I have filled out our first census, thrown the second in the trash as I will the third. My beef isn’t with the census, but the waste and misuse. Isn’t this why Jesus was born in Bethlehem, because of a census?
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
PASTOR'S PEN, 3-28-2010
On a brighter note...Next Sunday is Easter...Who will you bring to church? If you begin asking today, you will be surprised how many will come with you. Try it and see.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Pastors Pen 3-21-10
On a different note; Have you checked out the new web-site for the church? Its www.carey1stbaptist.com and it looks great, there is a page for all kinds of things, like Kidzone, reFuge, staff, photos, our ministries, the church calendar and for prayer. This is the page that I want to talk to you about. On the prayer page you can request prayer for someone; you just add in the info and send. It lets me know when a new name is added, when you write in the comments section, let me know if you want this name added to our church prayer bulletin or the web-site prayer page. Also I need to get anyone’s e-mail address or phone number who wants to get an update on these prayer requests. With this it will send you an e-mail or a text on you phone. So if you want to be added, please let me know.
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
THE SOLID MARRIAGE, pt. 1
Herman's Hermits - Mrs. Brown, You've Got a Lovely Walker
The Bee Gees - How Can You Mend a Broken Hip
Bobby Darin - Splish, Splash, I Was Havin' a Flash
Ringo Starr - I Get By With a Little Help from Depends
Roberta Flack - The First Time Ever I Forgot Your Face
Johnny Nash - I Can't See Clearly Now
Paul Simon - Fifty Ways to Lose Your Liver
Commodores - Once, Twice, Three Times to the Bathroom
Marvin Gaye - I Heard it Through the GrapeNuts
Procol Harem - A Whiter Shade of Hair
Leo Sayer - You Make Me Feel Like Napping
The Temptations - Papa's Got a Kidney Stone
Abba - Denture Queen
Tony Orlando - Knock 3 Times on the Ceiling if you Hear Me Fall
Helen Reddy - I am Woman, Hear me Snore
Willie Nelson - On the Throne Again
“THE SOLID MARRIAGE”
I want to begin talking about marriage this morning, and what I am using this morning is based on personal study and 31 years of marriage. I will be the first to tell you that I am not an expert on marriage, if you don’t believe me you can ask my wife, and I also know that there are those in this church who have been married longer that we have, but… I am the one preaching. Maybe, just maybe during this series we will get to hear from some of the others in our church who have been married for a while and hear what they have learned about marriage.
Now you may think that this sermon series is only for people who are married, or for couples who haven’t been married long enough to figure out whose boss. But I believe that it is for everyone who is married, has been married or may get married in the future. Many people have ended up divorced or in a miserable marriage because they did not learn what I will be sharing. Much of what I will be sharing is good for every person to learn, married or single.
“IF I HAVE NOT LOVE ...”
Now, I know that the origins of Valentine's Day may have a pagan feel since it was established in Rome centuries ago, but the main emphasis of Valentine's Day today is filled with expressions of love and appreciation. And we all know what today is…, many people throughout the world celebrate this day with flowers, candy and cards with meaningful messages. Many of you were here last night for our Annual Sweetheart Banquet. Poems will be read and new commitments made to one another. Valentine's Day is a wonderful thing.
Remember the old 1965 song by Jackie DeShannon:
"What the world needs now is love, sweet love. It's the only thing that there's just too little of ...No not just for some, but for everyone."
The song went on to say, we don't need any more mountains or meadows, but lots more love. Makes sense to me.
The Apostle Paul had a similar idea when he wrote to the Corinthians that I can possess all the characteristics of a Christian, "but have not love, I am nothing" (1 Cor. 13:2). In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 Paul wrote about what love is;
1 Corinthians 13:4-8. Read this out loud with me, let’s all stand.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. (Don’t look at your wife). Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always perseveres. LOVE NEVER FAILS.”
Stay on your feet because I want us to read this again, only this time we are going to do something a bit different. We are to be the love of Christ to a lost world, we are to love our spouse, and we are to be love! But do we practice love? We are going to read this again, but this time we are going to put our own name in the place of love, ready? Everyplace there is a blank add your name, are you ready, now this mat get a little confusing but concentrate.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
“______ is patient, ______ is kind. ______ does not envy, ______ does not boast, ______ is not proud. ______ is not rude, ______ is not self-seeking, ______ is not easily angered, ______ keeps no record of wrongs. ______ does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ______ always protects, ______ always perseveres.
LOVE NEVER FAILS.”
You may sit down.
We have seen it, we have read it out loud, but, do we truly live the message of 1 Corinthians 13? Are we truly love? Do we live it?
John wrote about this topic in his first epistle. "Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth" (1 John 3:18). And, again in chapter 4:20, 21: "If anyone says 'I love God,' yet hates his brother, he is a liar ... Whoever loves God must also love his brother." It would seem to me that the church has a whole lot of self-examination to do, some valentines to send, some more love to pass around.
Note: The U.S. Greeting Card Association estimates that approximately one billion valentines are sent each year world-wide. Yet, in spite of all those that are exchanged, the valentines that really matter are the ones we receive and give where love is unconditional, that say, "No matter what ... I love you!"
"... but the greatest of these is love" (1 Cor. 13:13).
1 Corinthians 14:1 says, “Follow the way of LOVE”.
BUT WHAT IS LOVE?
We all want a marriage that lasts, before we get married we are giddy with love, everything is good and everything is right and this is the marriage that will last through eternity. Then we get married and 6 months down the road this is not the person I married. But how many of you realize that you are not the person they married either? We need to know what real love is.
1 John 2:4-6; “The man who says, “I know Him,” but does not do what He commands is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But if anyone obeys His word, GOD’S LOVE is truly made complete in him. This is how we know we are in Him: Whoever claims to live in Him must walk as Jesus did.”
Before we decide if we love someone, if we want to marry them, we need to watch and see if they love God, their life will show it, they should be bearing fruit, we should be seeing fruit.
1 John 3:11 says, “This is the message you have heard from the beginning: We should love one another”.
There must be love in that person, real, true love.
2 John 6, “And this is love: that we walk in obedience to His commands. As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love.”
John 3:16
Jack Kelly is the foreign affairs editor for USA Today and has been nominated for a Pulitzer Prize. He tells the story of a boy’s sacrificial love:
We were in Mogadishu, the capital of Somalia, in East Africa, during a famine. It was so bad we walked into one village and everyone was dead. There is a stench of death that gets into your hair, gets onto your skin, gets onto your clothes, and you can’t wash it off.
We saw this little boy. You could tell he had worms and was malnourished; his stomach was protruding. When a child is extremely malnourished, the hair turns a reddish color, and the skin becomes crinkled as though he’s one hundred years old.
Our photographer had a grapefruit, which he gave to the boy. The boy was so weak he didn’t have the strength to hold the grapefruit, so we cut it in half and gave it to him. He picked it up, looked at us as if to say thanks, and began to walk back towards his village.
We walked behind him in a way that he couldn’t see us. When he entered the village, there on the ground was a little boy who I thought was dead. His eyes were completely glazed over. It turned out that this was his younger brother. The older brother kneeled down next to his younger brother, bit off a piece of the grapefruit, and chewed it. Then he opened up his younger brother’s mouth, put the grapefruit in, and worked his brother’s up and down. We learned that the older brother had been doing that for the younger brother for two weeks.
A couple of days later the older brother died of malnutrition and the younger brother lived. I remember driving home that night thinking, “I wonder if this is what Jesus meant when he said, and “There is no greater love than to lay down our life for somebody else.”
BLESSED
Something else I want to brag on you about, it seems that our numbers are up some in worship, Bible study is still floating around 50, but it seems that some are coming in for church. Did you know that 82% of the people you invite to church come? 82% are pretty good odds, that means that 82 out of every 100 will come if they are asked. Did you also know that when someone is invited it makes them feel wanted? And everyone wants to feel wanted, so keep on inviting and bringing and we will keep on loving those who come.
I want you to consider something; I need some people to volunteer to visit our visitors. When we have people come and visit us for the first time we need someone to go and visit them. All you need to do is go and tell them that we enjoyed having them with us. Very simple and easy visit, takes about 5 minutes but it means so much to our visitors. Did you know that we are losing visitors because our people do not go to see them? Sad but true! Will you help?